DECISION MAKING
This is definitely not my strong suit.
I am very indecisive.
When it comes to what I want to wear, eat, or do.
This is not a good quality to have. And I knew that I struggled with this, but I did not know that it was eventually going to affect my life in a NOT SO positive way.
Therefore, it is time to make some changes to myself and my life; and how I go about everything. And how I think and make my decisions.
If you know me, or have been following me… Then you know that I moved out of my parent’s house and out of the state in January 2016. This was a huge change for me, which it would be for pretty much anyone.
Another big change is getting/being in a serious relationship.
With these two big changes in my life you would think that I have grown up… Or became an adult. But now that some light has been brought to this topic, I do not think I have, not completely anyways.
Moving out obviously meant that I was going to miss my family, but I made the mistake of allowing my emotions control some of my decisions. I also didn’t think about the people around me or my financial situation and work schedule.
An adult would have thought of all of those things before making a decision. But I didn’t, and it started unwanted issues in my life.
My relationship is something that has suffered from my decisions, and some of my new friendships. And none of that is acceptable!
I am now aware of my bad decision making and indecisive-ness. I am also aware of the fact that I have to think of the people around me before making a decision, most importantly, my significant other!
I am no longer a single girl. I have someone else to think about. We are a team, and I have to start being a part of that team.
So that’s enough babble about my lack of decision making… Here are a few things that I will be doing going forward to improve.
Pause, and be more aware/mindful of what I’m doing.
Look into going to therapy.
Remember that this is my life! I don’t have to please everyone, especially if “it” doesn’t make sense for mine and my significant other’s life.
Stop taking the “easy” way out.
This is where I am going to start.
If decision making is something that you struggle, perhaps you can try the above things as well. :)